Astrologically Yours

Solar Eclipse/New Moon

    I suppose that it's a matter of just how hot the water or creativity or passions around us gets, as to how

this major eclipse will effect all of us and of course, just how much in control we are of ourselves and our

environments. It is still a "gamblers aspect" so it is still 50-50 for any and all things, but particularly related

to the business of groups, intimate or otherwise, partnerships, where creativity, passion and major original

inspirations can thrive. We can change our world one head, one world, at a time. What I am saying is that

it is time to do something different, especially if, like most of us the old standard, status quota has not been

working for you, no matter how hard you tried to rectify the situation. Check out your options, believe me

there are many, we are by no means as trapped as we would be led to believe. If you have tried in every

way to understand, fix, reconcile, and, or come to terms with some situation, perhaps, it is time to quite

simply throw in the towel and walk away. Ultimatums won't work, for you have tried them before, only

positive action in another direction will. The only real thing to make sure of is that you are not jumping out

of the frying pan and into the fire by going in a new direction that is exactly like the one you are leaving, for

if you do this it will be worse for you and you might as well stay right where you are until you have well and

fully learned the lessons in humility being provided for you. If you have had enough, take some time and

cool off if you need to but do not wait too long to act upon your visions, twenty-four hours is more than 

enough time to re-evaluate any situation and come up with a practical decision. Do not second guess your

self on this or the other parties involved either, know your market and your strategy, then move on it, take

a calculated risk using your vision, your knowledge to get what you need, and move on if you must. Don't

look back, you have negotiated and talked the subject to death and you have grown and changed. Have

they done anything any different that would inspire any type of loyalty within you? It is time to force the

hand of fate.Stop trying to "fix" everyone else"s "leaks" and concentrate for once on your own, for you

are drowning here even if you can't "see" it. Ask yourself: What are my priorities and responsibilities here?

List them in the order of their importance and then fix these things first. If you have any energy, time, or

resources to share after you have done this, be very aware of who you are giving them to and why. The

why of the matter is the key. Are you actually helping them to help themselves or are you just giving them

another "band aid" until the next "mark" comes along. Be very honest with yourself about this, no one stays

a victim, if they are indeed one, and they have their own lessons to learn. Who are you to deny them this 

experience? It is, after all, why we are here. Get rid of the guilt, this drags you down, concentrate on your

own issues instead. It is important to give back to be sure, but you must stop thinking that you are the "breast" of the world. That is called co-dependency and you did not come here to be a martyr. Did you?

Don't undersell yourself by listening to people who tell you things "for your own good" really? What are

their credentials in this field and better still what is it that they want from you? You are the Master of your

own destiny, prove it by doing it and living it. Do not compare notes with anyone on this, they are not you.

Establish your priorities in the order of your needs and take the steps to make your dreams a reality. Allow

others the space to realize and make manifest their own if they can. A generous heart does not mean that

you make yourself into a "free for all patsy" honor your own needs first, and then what you do will grow 

flowers, trees, works of art, dreams come true and ultimately joy. Blessed Be.