Imagination is everything. It is a preview of things to come.
Being responsible for turning your dreams into realities is a process of focusing, and directing your energies, by taking certain well thought out steps. Knowing what it is that you want precisely, and being committed to following through on your plans, with full confidence, that the universe contrives to be a co-creator, in full partnership with you by giving you exactly what it is that you ask for, or even think that you want. As in; "Ask and it shall be given. Seek and ye shall find. Knock and the door shall open unto you." There are no coincidences, intuition leads you, but will you have the courage to follow its lead?
Do not say that you cannot do something because of what ever reason or another. Words are the most powerful things in the world. Everything starts with how, what, and why, you think of something. Try this exercise every time you start to spit out the word 'can't' instead say this: "I am triggered, NOT, you make me mad." Think of the differences in the wording. Something that is triggered is alive and ready to 'DO' something. Yes, even if it is wrong. When you think of someone making you do something, it is rebellion that goads you at every level, and it is a cop out, it also stops the flow of energy, dead in your own tracks. What you think is magnetized to you. It becomes your reality of the moment, and you get exactly what you are asking for. What are you asking for here? When you focus on what you do not want, that is exactly what you do get. Focus on what you do want as your reality instead. You are the creator of your own life plan. Thoughts become things. How much energy do you waste on blaming someone else for your anger? Why are you mad? How could you be utilizing that 'MAD' energy by doing something constructively, that actually moves the chain of events toward your own happily ever after tomorrow? For this to happen you must change your expectations. Invite what you consider the impossible, to come into your life. Image it in full color, see yourself being and doing exactly what you wish to do, and being totally successful at it.
I like the old Metaphysical concept of getting out the Crayola crayons, and a big sheet of construction paper, and then taking my time drawing out exactly what it is that I would like to have. When you do this you engage all of the senses. You are physically doing something constructive by creating a blueprint of your future in the now. You are dreaming it without censor by bringing the Spirit child, self into play, and having fun with it. You are emotionally allowing yourself to enter into a world where you feel that everything is possible, and that you really can have it all, the sky really is the limit. Fall in love with your self, appreciate all of your potential, fill in the blanks, be creative in this. If you won't allow yourself to dream it, and actually see yourself living it, how on earth, or beyond, do you expect to ever create it in your reality?
Life is a transmitter and receiver, while we are constantly transmitting signals, we rarely ever are consistently aware of exactly what those transmissions are putting out there. Here's a clue as to their content; Look around you, what are you surrounded by? Do you recognize your mind set? You receive what ever you bait your hook with, right? If you are fishing for shark, do you use minnows? Nothing can come in until you are fully ready for it, and invite it to come into your life, consciously preparing for it like you would any well loved, and expected child, or lover. I usually tell my clients to get a full length mirror and use it. When you are happy with what you see in it, you will be amazed at how successful you can be, and are being. The other side of the spectrum, is that as you welcome your own growth, appreciate your ability to learn and grow from your experiences, and let go of the negativity of stinking thinking. You will slowly but surely begin to filter out the things, places and people, that are no longer good for you, or are even any kind of valid part of your life. It will just happen, but first you must be willing to allow the good to come in. Believe that you deserve the life that you dream of. You do. Love yourself as you would love to be loved. Realize that until you have it within you, you can never have it from any other quarter. Like really does attract like. Build your world upon a firm foundation of Clarity, Strength, Protection, and Guidance. All of this comes from within, all you have to do is Listen, Feel, Intuit, and Follow through. I love you. Blessed Be.