Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Saucy Wake Up Call To All

So, here I am irritated, aggravated, appalled, pissed off, insulted, and talking to my cats in my favorite Irish, which she absolutely hates. AGAIN! 'Tis the Season, or so "They" say, whoever the hell they are anyway.
Dreams. Rattling around in my head, like haunting's under the bed. None of them tangible, all of them with the same ole theme. The theme is what gets me.
Women who are strong, resilient, outgoing, and intelligent; Some of them run whole worldwide companies, are administrators, have all climbed up the ladders of success, the hard way. They earned every single bruise, and having arrived do not know the first thing about human nature, or specifically about men in general. How does this happen?
Amazing, isn't it? Life, Love, or the pursuit of happiness. What they do know how to do is Mother. They treat their boyfriends, husband's, co-workers, kids, like they are the "ALL GIVING COW MOTHER" so that is what they are? Then they get pissed off when they keep on getting stepped on. Why they expect to be treated any other way than their actions speak, I haven't the foggiest. After all they have made themselves into servants, haven't they?
How can a man; or even a boy; "See" a Mother image as a sexual partner, without guilt, or even disgust, at themselves, if they do. How can they see someone who projects, and enforces this image, as a real life, equal, partner, and friend.
Kali-Ma, the All consuming one is the Death Mother. Gaia is Mother Earth, and rules all in and upon it. Hera is over all of the birth, growth, orientations; Harvesting, storing, for winter etc. The lists are endless, and of course, there is the Crone, and the Maiden.
Now, the Maiden is in a totally different Catagory. She is full of her own self completely, and she expects to be worshipped, and taken care of, and for the most part she is not disappointed. They are lined up at her door, admiring, worshipping, and in fear of her.
Yes, thats right; I said FEARED! A new toy is always treated like it is priceless, and it is. It is also petted, maintained, out-fitted, in the very best that their money can buy, put on a pedestal, and shown off, with huge glaringly, invisible, (sometimes visible) protection surrounding her, and worry, and fear come from the fact that this tender morsel of perfection, could be damaged, taken away, become disatisfied, in any way.
We all  know about CHRISTMAS, right? All of those brand new toys, treasures, possessions, (feel the love) we are so satiated, we want to show everything off right away, but the thing is that generally, we do not want to share the wealth. We want to be the "only" ones for awhile. RIGHT?
The other side of the coin is that this "shine" does not last, unless respect is a part of the package deal, and how does respect happen?
It is learned behavior, cause and effect. If we do thus and so, this happens, if we don't do this and so, that happens.
Do you respect your Mother? Or, do you take her for granted? Do you even know the answer to this question?
I know. I know. Most of you said; "Well, of course, I do! She "IS" MY Mother!"
Really? Is that all that it takes to qualify? Absolutely, and Irrefutably, NOT So!
Respect is not a given. It is like so many other important things in life. It must be not only learned and earned in life, it must be demanded, and cultivated.
I think that the lack of respect in this country, and the world, IS the #1 problem that we have, simply because it is a major building block, and the majority don't seem to have a single clue how important that building block is to the basic foundation of life in general, or even what it means.
Remember that song "Respect Yourself'"? It wa so powerful, it made your heart and soul proud to hear it. I remember when and where I first heard it. We were the backup  band for a local high school band. It was amazing how powerful those girls were. They knew what that song meant and they put it out there with pure pride. They brought the house down. Want to guess who won the contest? Not only did they sing it, they got their whole body, soul, and attitude, into it. They knew who Mama was. That is how it should be.
Respect is a two edged sword. It swings both ways. Unfortunatly, in these days, it is used more for manipulation, than it is for praise.
How you treat yourself, how you think of, and treat others, says it all. How you feel is a barometer. Pay attention. Balance is everything.
Remember Vincent Price in that old movie "The Pendalum"? How close is that razor sharp edge to destruction, and how have you invited it in by your own actions and offerings?
To give everything to a loved one is not Holy. Its is stupid! It is supposed to be a partnership, and it does matter what they have brought to the table.
The way a relationship of any kind starts "IS" the way it will wind up being, or end. There is nothing to defend or justify. Why should you even try to do that? What is...IS. Oh, yes, there is that. Little Green Meanie on my left shoulder says, "If you're neurotic 2+2=5; All of the time. Really.
Well, I don't know about you, but I, myself, do not suffer fools, or neurotics, for longer than it takes me to step away from their dialog. My nerves are crystal clear when it comes to "Bull Shit Artists" thin veneer.
The terrible truth is in the mirror, whether you want to see it or not. It is there.
If you feel that you must defend your actions as an enabler. There is an Agenda. Both sides of the coin. Either reinforcing the thought process of how giving or over burdened you are, and how much you have done for so and so, or such and such or; "I loved them so much, and they just didn't understand...Understand what? Put a label on it, and your answer is undeniable.
Of course, victims seem to be the rage now. Look at all those "Wanna be Zombies" in the Mall. Does that mean that they choose Death over Life?
Responsibility for ones own actions is an inside job. RESPECT YOURSELF!

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